Life Lesson: Do the ingredients matter to you?

Life Lesson:  Do the ingredients matter to you?


Many of you know my heart and passion to serve and love to my best ability. This includes what I allow into my home whether it be food products, cleaning products, books, etc. I have stood my ground in some areas and even switched our toxic cleaners to natural health building ones once I saw the research but other areas ... time and the constant action of others have worn me down and I have accepted into my life and world.

My friend Robyn Stiffler shared the following story with me.  What a unique but very valid perspective. Accountability check for me to see what I’m tolerating or allowing to be added into my life to desensitize me and my loved ones. 

With my history in Western medicine and Natural wellness, I am well aware of how one Introduces a very small amount of a substance and then builds from there to create a tolerance in our bodies. That applies to more than chemicals.

And the story goes ...

My wife and I have been talking about cancelling Netflix because of all the issues with one of their recent movies.

We are doing our homework to be well informed about our decision but I ran across this very timely story which seems to put it in a very sobering perspective!

Some years ago when I was a pastor, I walked into my church office after a Sunday morning service to find a little brown bag on my desk containing three chocolate brownies.

Some thoughtful and anonymous saint who knew my love for chocolate had placed them there, along with a piece of paper that had a short story written on it.

I immediately sat down and began eating the first brownie as I read the following story:

Two teenagers asked their father if they could go to the theater to watch a movie that all their friends had seen. After reading some reviews about the movie on the internet, he denied their request.

“Aw dad, why not?” they complained. “It’s rated PG-13, and we’re both older than thirteen!”

Dad replied: “Because that movie contains nudity and portrays immorality—which is something that God hates—as being normal and acceptable behavior.”

“But dad, those are just very small parts of the movie! That’s what our friends who’ve seen it have told us. The movie is two hours long and those scenes are just a few minutes of the total film! It’s based on a true story, and good triumphs over evil, and there are other redeeming themes like courage and self-sacrifice. Even the Christian movie review websites say that!”

“My answer is ‘no,’ and that is my final answer. You are welcome to stay home tonight, invite some of your friends over, and watch one of the good videos we have in our home collection. But you will not go and watch that film. End of discussion.”

The two teenagers walked dejectedly into the family room and slumped down on the couch.

As they sulked, they were surprised to hear the sounds of their father preparing something in the kitchen. They soon recognized the wonderful aroma of brownies baking in the oven, and one of the teenagers said to the other, “Dad must be feeling guilty, and now he’s going to try to make it up to us with some fresh brownies. Maybe we can soften him with lots of praise when he brings them out to us and persuade him to let us go to that movie after all.”

About that time I began eating the second brownie from the little brown bag and wondered if there was some connection to the brownies I was eating and the brownies in the story. I kept reading…

The teens were not disappointed. Soon their father appeared with a plate of warm brownies which he offered to his kids. They each took one.
Then their father said, “Before you eat, I want to tell you something: I love you both so very much.”

The teenagers smiled at each other with knowing glances. Dad was softening.

“That is why I’ve made these brownies with the very best ingredients. I’ve made them from scratch. Most of the ingredients are even organic. The best organic flour. The best free-range eggs. The best organic sugar. Premium vanilla and chocolate.”

The brownies looked mouth-watering, and the teens began to become a little impatient with their dad’s long speech.

“But I want to be perfectly honest with you. There is one ingredient I added that is not usually found in brownies. I got that ingredient from our own back yard. But you needn’t worry, because I only added the tiniest bit of that ingredient to your brownies. The amount of the portion is practically insignificant. So go ahead, take a bite and let me know what you think.”

“Dad, would you mind telling us what that mystery ingredient is before we eat?”

“Why? The portion I added was so small. Just a teaspoonful. You won’t even taste it.”

“Come on, dad, just tell us what that ingredient is.”

“Don’t worry! It’s organic, just like the other ingredients.”

“Dad!”

“Well, OK, if you insist. That secret ingredient is organic…dog poop.”

I immediately stopped chewing that second brownie and I spit it out into the waste basket by my desk. I continued reading, now fearful of the paragraphs that still remained.

Both teens instantly dropped their brownies back on the plate and began inspecting their fingers with horror.

“DAD! Why did you do that? You’ve tortured us by making us smell those brownies cooking for the last half hour, and now you tell us that you added dog poop! We can’t eat these brownies!”

“Why not? The amount of dog poop is very small compared to the rest of the ingredients. It won’t hurt you. It’s been cooked right along with the other ingredients. You won’t even taste it. It has the same consistency as the brownies. Go ahead and eat!”

“No, Dad…NEVER!”

“And that is the same reason I won’t allow you to go watch that movie. You won’t tolerate a little dog poop in your brownies, so why should you tolerate a little immorality in your movies?

We pray that God will not lead us unto temptation, so how can we in good conscience entertain ourselves with something that will imprint a sinful image in our minds that will lead us into temptation long after we first see it?”

I discarded what remained of the second brownie as well as the entire untouched third brownie.

What had been irresistible a minute ago had become detestable. And only because of the very slim chance that what I was eating was slightly polluted. (Surely it wasn’t…but I couldn’t convince myself.)

What a good lesson about purity!

Why do we tolerate any sin?

On the day of the Passover, the Israelites were commanded to remove every bit of leaven from their homes. Sin is like leaven—a little bit leavens the whole lump (1 Cor. 5:6).
 Jesus, “our Passover” (1 Cor. 5:7), and sin, don’t mix.

Help us, Lord, to “cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God” (2 Cor. 7:1).

Hate evil, you who love the Lord (Ps. 97:10)

This was shared by a gentleman named Randy Hicks.

Accountability Check!
What are you allowing into your life that is desensitizing or weakening your foundation?

Brilliant or Burnt Out — YOU Choose!


In a World of whispers, shouts, bells, whistles, flashing lights, neon signs, “but wait there’s more!” opportunities and  uniquely designed options than one person can see, do, touch, hear, experience.


Your first answer should always be a resounding, automatic No.


THEN 


Look for a reason or unction or a Why to say ... Yes.


Look at what is being offered or expected from you ...


THEN


Measure it against your purpose.


Does it fit well with your path of focus? 


Does it play well and harmonize with the other things going on in your life? 


Does it ignite the excitement and energy of your inner most passion? 


Does the journey and outcome of the opportunity out weigh the energy it demands? 


Is it worth giving up or trading out other things for? 


Does it leave room for or even immediately bring regrets? 


Will you have regrets at the end of your life ... if you don’t do it? 



If you’re spending your energy and time doing everything then you miss out on the joy and strength of doing what you are purposely created to do and the World misses out on the blessings that overflow from you.


Say No.

Choose your Yes wisely.

Brilliantly Shine as the Light you were created to be. 


You are only promised today. 

You are the one that sets the limits on your unlimited potential. 


So what’s your purposed response going to be? 


A “Yes” with a dread and No in your heart that drains, depletes, and sucks the life out of you leaving you nothing to give to those you love or even to yourself. Worse yet, it brings a negative attitude that you sow into all those around you? 


OR


A well chosen, life giving, fire igniting “YES” that invests into your passion and greatest good for your life? 


Every action you take and word you speak changes the atmosphere around you ... for you or against you. 


It’s your World. 

It’s your life you’re living. 

It’s your legacy impact. 


What are you purposefully choosing?

How Do You Show Appreciation To Yourself?

How Do You Show Appreciation To Yourself?
Share below things you do to show appreciation for yourself!  Inquiring minds want to know. 

Be Blessed!

Who are you letting set your pace?


Another glimpse from a day on the road ... 

This day, this day I totally adored following the outstanding, white Ford F-350 dually with the Yamaha 450 in the back.  Why? Because these pace setters that were leading me ... are my superior warrior sons who have launched well from the mantle their dad and I have raised high for them.  Following them and letting them set the pace is leading from behind.  Just like my main mentor and example that I step by step follow in His leading as I am able. It's also how I choose to manage business and practice.

However, I will say, that during my hours of insight and pondering time, I did have some awareness of things that I'm allowing to impact, lead or push my life that no longer support and some quite possibly were never for me from the very beginning.  Freedom when breaking bondages feels and tastes so sweet! 

Your Challenge Ponder Question:
Who or what is leading and setting the pace in your life?
Are they for you or for themselves? 

I adore when you share your insights.  

I am passionate about supporting you on your journey.

I am passionate about Standing The Gap.

Be Blessed, 

Michelle


Stage 1 Alert override results in unpreparedness

Wow!  As you can from watching my vlog post: 

Stage 1 Body System Alert Exercise completed.  
Total pass on noticing the alert.  
Epic fail on putting the alert into action.  
Learned a valuable lesson.

My response: 
1)   Taking and celebrating my win with the growth in being alert.  
2)   Making notes and focusing more on the Stage 1 alert response. 

Your Challenge Question:  
What and How are you growing and developing in your life? 

Share below, I adore celebrating with you and supporting you on your journey.  

I am passionate about Standing The Gap from where you are to where you can and want to be.

Be Blessed!

Michelle
 
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