I have purposefully worked on overcoming and breaking fear from my past and it’s control on m.
It is essential for me to soar in my new career and to be able to help others.
Turns out, joy is a scary feeling. When we find ourselves in a moment so happy and beautiful, the only thing our brain knows how to do is prepare us for the crash landing.
What could go wrong? How will this get messed up? What is the worst possible outcome of this wonderful scenario?
We celebrate our friends so easily because their joy isn’t a risk to us. It isn’t SCARY.
But we talk down to ourselves because OUR joy is downright terrifying.
I mean, what would happen if we believed we were beautiful? What would happen if we celebrated our OWN talents? If we loved our bodies and our minds? If we allowed ourselves to fly?
Well, sometimes things that fly fall down. And that hurts like hell. So, I guess that’s what could happen.
Maybe that’s why, instead of letting ourselves take that risk to be joyful, we say “Nope. You stay put. Right there. Where it’s miserably safe. If you already believe you are a failure, then failure doesn’t hurt, now does it?”
Keep ya head up girl. We’re gonna keep working on it. You will feel joy even if it’s not with my team❤️
so are there areas you are ready and/or need to break free from fear?
I’d adore linking arms with you and breaking free from the fear holds of the past, give me a shout!
I’m passionate about Standjng the Gap from where you are to where you can and want to be!