Today this popped up in my feed and I was lead to click and listen.
These words still hold true today.
My husband and I have over 27 years of relationship marriage commitment and covenant. We knew each other less than 4 months from meet to married with no former connections of any form.
My dad always said to date a rich man. My caregiver heart was always after encouraging and supporting the one in a challenge. I didn’t understand nor ever get what my dad was saying since I was not money focused in any of my relationships in life. Until one day … the aha moment hit … you marry someone you date and if you have your lifetime spouse foundational needs list in place and only date accordingly, you won’t settle for less when forming your legacy foundation for the rest of your life. It’s a great guideline to stay focused and not swayed by emotions, life events, etc.
Rich is more than money. Fertile dirt is described as rich as its full of nutrients, life, and growth. It’s a base to start from and improve upon.
Randy & I have gone through many hard challenges in our years. We survived by God’s mercy and grace, a lot of prayers (ours and other prayer warriors) and out of stubbornness. We made a commitment before God and there is no option other than love each other and seek to see each other as God sees us.
Marriage is some of the hardest work you will ever do but some of the highest paying and most rewarding.
Billy Graham’s words of what to look for in a mate are real today. The choices we make impact our relationship for the rest of our life. Take this serious.
Randy and I weren’t on the same platform when we met. Thus we added more work, demands, and stress on ourselves and marriage. We walked dark challenges. Our sons were born into our family relationship and didn’t have a choice and reaped the consequences rich and poor of their parents choices. Even as adulted children our relationship impacts their lives.
The moment Randy and I said “ I Do” in front of God … we became the Best for each other. We have made some choices that were unnecessary and caused negative consequences because we didn’t have our vision written down for our life course and calling in the past. We are walking out uniting, declaring and decreeing our life purposed calling with a written vision posted to keep us moving forward.
I choose to be more in love with my husband every single day. No matter how hard the choice maybe at some moments, it is worth it. Yes, we still have things come up we have to renounce and repent for. However, the reward is a deeper relationship, bond and more love, joy, peace & laughter everyday despite life’s challenges.
If you are single, I encourage you to listen and serious apply this information to your life. Bible truths are foundational and covenant.
Make wise choices.
Build a strong covenant foundation for your legacy building marriage.
Leave a strong relationship testimony for your current and future legacies to build on.
Marriage is a relationship choice, a covenant commitment.
Marriage is NOT a feeling or ceremony to check off your list.
Marriage done with God’s covenant is very blessed, highly favored and withstands all.
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