Marriage insights still true and very important today

Marriage insights still true and very important today
Today this popped up in my feed and I was lead to click and listen. 

These words still hold true today. 

My husband and I have over 27 years of relationship marriage commitment and covenant.  We knew each other less than 4 months from meet to married with no former connections of any form. 

My dad always said to date a rich man.  My caregiver heart was always after encouraging and supporting the one in a challenge.  I didn’t understand nor ever get what my dad was saying since I was not money focused in any of my relationships in life. Until one day … the aha moment hit … you marry someone you date and if you have your lifetime spouse foundational needs list in place and only date accordingly, you won’t settle for less when forming your legacy foundation for the rest of your life. It’s a great guideline to stay focused and not swayed by emotions, life events, etc. 

Rich is more than money.  Fertile dirt is described as rich as its full of nutrients, life, and growth. It’s a base to start from and improve upon. 

Randy & I  have gone through many hard challenges in our years. We survived by God’s mercy and grace, a lot of prayers (ours and other prayer warriors) and out of stubbornness. We made a commitment before God and there is no option  other than love each other and seek to see each other as God sees us. 

Marriage is some of the hardest work you will ever do but some of the highest paying and most rewarding. 

Billy Graham’s words of what to look for in a mate are real today. The choices we make impact our relationship for the rest of our life.  Take this serious. 

Randy and I weren’t on the same platform when we met. Thus we added more work, demands, and stress on ourselves and marriage. We walked dark challenges.  Our sons were born into our family relationship and didn’t have a choice and reaped the consequences rich and poor of their parents choices. Even as adulted children our relationship impacts their lives.  

The moment Randy and I said “ I Do” in front of God … we became the Best for each other. We have made some choices that were unnecessary and caused  negative consequences because we didn’t have our vision written down for our life course and calling in the past.  We are walking out uniting, declaring and decreeing our life purposed calling with a written vision posted to keep us moving forward. 

I choose to be more in love with my husband every single day. No matter how hard the choice maybe at some moments, it is worth it.  Yes, we still have things come up we have to renounce and repent for.  However, the reward is a deeper relationship, bond and more love, joy, peace & laughter everyday despite life’s challenges. 

If you are single, I encourage you to listen and serious apply this information to your life. Bible truths are foundational and covenant. 

Make wise choices.
Build a strong covenant foundation for your legacy building marriage. 
Leave a strong relationship testimony for your current and future legacies to build on. 

Marriage is a relationship choice, a covenant commitment. 
Marriage is NOT a feeling or ceremony to check off your list. 
Marriage done with God’s covenant is very blessed, highly favored and withstands all. 

Feel free to reach out.  We are here to Stand The Gap from where you are to where you can and want to be. 

Be blessed! 

How to tell Good versus Evil

What do you say YES to? Good or GREAT?

Someone needs this truth bomb today:⁣

Sometimes saying “no” to something good will mean being able to say “yes” to something GREAT.

Let’s take inventory this week.  

What doesn’t serve you or your family or your business?⁣

What is draining your soul of joy and energy? ⁣

You need that energy for what matters, and that’s YOU and your family.

What choices and actions are you taking?
Are they intentional or haphazard?
You are responsible and accountable for you.

What action can you take in your life to change “good”  to “GREAT”?

Let us know how we can support and encourage you on your journey! 

Today’s Choice ...

Today’s Choice ...
I adore the unique beauty of the mornings!Same morning.Same time.Different directions of view.  
Total different perspectives.  

That’s a great example of life.

The dawn of the sun coming over the Mesa speaks to me of the promise of this new day.  

Today ... I get to choose with a fresh start to my day.  Yesterday is my past. I take what is good and mine to take for my created good and leave behind or dispose of the rest.  

The hazy purple, pink, gray of the distant mesas to the South speaks to me of the promises of my day to come.  

Like the view, it will be ever changing.

Like the view, I can participate in watching and enjoying the many changes and perspectives throughout the day ... or I can choose to not look and see the beauty and opportunities that are offered to me today.  

Today ... I CHOOSE Joy!

Today ... I CHOOSE to speak blessings over all the people who my path crosses.

Today ... I CHOOSE to listen and share with at least 3 people, a blessing in my life that has added more than 4 income opportunities that support and blend with grace and ease with my ministry and my life.  

Who wants to join me?
Who wants a spoken blessing?
Who wants the opportunity to say yes or no to an income opportunity that is raising my life to higher levels?

Message me, call me, text me, come see me!  
You choose!

Today I call your spirit forth and bless you ...

May the promise of the dawn of a new day bring energy, hope and excitement of today, fulfilling your life calling to its fullest potential with joy and blessings overflowing!

So Be It!  


It’s Hot. Getting creative ... Mindful Walking option.

My dogs are thinking I’ve lost my mind.
I think I’m being resourceful.
My mind is processing faster then I can keep up and it’s not always the best feeling.  Joy is definitely a determined choice today that I’m working on more often than normal.
Decided body movement would counterbalance (now that’s an interesting word for another insight post 😁)my mind movement.  However it is HOT and dry out there.  
So exercising creativity, I’ve been walking the shaded porch for almost an hour now.  
Logging some steps for my Conquerer Challenge and MyQFit goals.
Dumping some thoughts and making room for more creativity.  
Feeling better in all aspects of my physical, mental, emotional and spiritual being.  
Now to get creative with supporting my business partners achieve their goals.  
What do you do when you’re physically and mentally in a “jam”?
Adore hearing your creative or uncreative ideas.  Open to new ideas.
Thanks in advance for sharing!
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